Wednesday, July 6, 2016

Gold Coast mum-to-be Daegan Coyne says there is no ‘one size fits all’ pregnancy – Daily Mail

  • Daegan Coyne, 30, is expecting her very first child, a girl, in September
  • The mum-to-be said several individuals had commented on her bump size
  • The comments prompted her to speak out regarding pregnancy
  • She said no two bumps are the exact same and pregnancy is not one size fits all

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When individuals earned passing comments to Daegan Coyne that her baby bump was ‘means also small’, she started to wonder if every little thing was okay.

The Gold Coast mum-to-be is pregnant along with her very first child, and despite being told by doctors her baby’s size is in honest truth above average, peoples comments had her scared.

The experience prompted her to speak out and say there is no ‘one size fits all’ As quickly as it concerns pregnancy, and told Day-to-day Mail Australia women need to not compare their bump along with others. 

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Speaking out: Gold Coast mum-to-be Daegan Coyne is 30 weeks pregnant and said people often commented on her 'tiny' bump

Speaking out: Gold Coast mum-to-be Daegan Coyne is 30 weeks pregnant and said individuals frequently commented on her ‘tiny’ bump

All pregnancies are different: She said as a first time mum the comments scared her and made her question whether everything was okay with her pregnancy

All pregnancies are different: She said as a very first time mum the comments scared her and earned her question whether every little thing was okay along with her pregnancy

Mrs Coyne, 30, is an IFBB (Worldwide Federation of Physique Building) bikini competitor and lawyer from the Gold Coast.

She is an advocate for good health and fitness, and her Instagram has actually amassed much more compared to 26,000 followers.

There she has actually shared improvement photos of her pregnancy, and used the platform to share her message on motherhood.

All different: Mrs Coyne said there is no 'one size fits all' when it comes to pregnancy

All different: Mrs Coyne said there is no ‘one size fits all’ As quickly as it concerns pregnancy

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Individual: The health and fitness advocate desires others mothers to not compare their bumps along with those they see on Instagram

Nothing to worry about: Mrs Coyne said doctors told her her baby girl is bigger than average 

Nothing to worry about: Mrs Coyne said doctors told her her baby girl is bigger compared to average 

‘I have actually had pregnant friends called out for being “also big”, others “far also muscly” and myself, the “you’re means also small”,’ she said.

‘Offered I am yet to see one lady carry their pregnancy form and size the exact same as another, I believe it’s safe to assume peeps [sic] that there is no “one size fits all” pregnancy. 

‘I understand heaps of the comments aren’t meant to be hurtful or upsetting by any sort of means, however we every one of have actually enough to worry regarding being a brand-new mum … permit alone whether you are the size you are “expected” to be.’

Not alone: Instagram star and CrossFit trainer Revie Jane Schulz spoke out on the same issue after people said she had a large baby bump

Not alone: Instagram star and CrossFit instructor Revie Jane Schulz spoke out on the exact same issue after individuals said she had a large baby bump

Baby on board: She said at 24 weeks pregnant she 'looked like a lot of people's full term' and would receive many comments about her size

Baby on board: She said at 24 weeks pregnant she ‘looked adore a great deal of people’s complete term’ and would certainly receive several comments regarding her size

Mrs Coyne is friends along with match mums Revie Jane Schulz and Chontel Duncan, that the 2 attracted comments regarding the size of their bumps throughout pregnancy.

On Tuesday Revie shared a throw-spine photo to As quickly as she was 24 weeks pregnant, where she said she: ‘looked adore a great deal of people’s complete term’.

She said individuals constantly told her her bump was ‘huge’, and the comments earned her wish to hide away and at times low her to tears.

Compare the pair: Chontel Duncan's photo compared her bump at 21.5 weeks pregnant with her friend Nat's who was four weeks further along 

Compare the pair: Chontel Duncan’s photo compared her bump at 21.5 weeks pregnant along with her friend Nat’s that was four weeks further along 

Chontel Duncan earned headlines for having abdominals while pregnant, and a photo that compared her bump at 21.5 weeks to that of a friend’s four weeks further along in their pregnancy went viral.

Mrs Coyne said women need to not compare their own baby bumps to those they see on Instagram, and there is no excellent size for every one of pregnant women.

‘We wish to make it known that every single individual carries their pregnancy differently,’ she said.

Mum to be: 'We want to make it known that every single person carries their pregnancy differently,' she said

Mum to be: ‘We wish to make it known that every single individual carries their pregnancy differently,’ she said

Not intentional: She said people did not mean to be hurtful when they commented on her bump size

Not intentional: She said individuals did not mean to be hurtful As quickly as they commented on her bump size

‘You aren’t expected to look adore everyone else on Instagram.

‘I believe there’s this unrealistic expectation, however I don’t believe any person truly knows exactly what that expectation is.’ 

Mrs Coyne said earlier on in her pregnancy, several individuals commented that she didn’t also have actually a bump and asked if she was sure she was pregnant.

She said while no one intended to be mean along with their comments, she urged individuals to believe prior to they speak.

‘They need to re-word and say you’re excellent for your size, you’re excellent for that you are and everybody is different,’ she said.